This Blog is to offer hope to those who have lost their way for a time.
Some years ago, I transitioned from running my business to studying Aged and Disability Care. I worked in a high care facility, and on a team of Carers in an independent living estate. During this time, one thing I often heard were the words “I don’t want to be here” or “I don’t want to […]
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During a time with people who ask for help to find and understand the answer to this question, I ask some questions about progressive points in their life. Early childhood, middle school, teenage years, relationships etc. In the space of about thirty minutes I find there is a remarkably similar thread in most people’s response
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Decluttering often makes a HUGE mess! Today, let’s talk about how to declutter without making a mess. Keep the area you’re decluttering neat and tidy while you organize and simplify it. This works so well, I’m excited to share it with you today! I was able to visit with Dana after this, you can see
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I have always been opposed to restricting phone use as a punishment or a way of discipline for a family member…!!! And here’s why! Most people think Technology is neutral, but it’s not, it has value and presence like any other idol. Yes, we can learn from this. I do know the principle of God
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Once a narcissist begins invalidating you, it is very tempting to become drawn into a competition you are sure to lose. Here is a winning strategy so you will be able to walk away from those episodes victorious. Hint: Your version of winning will not be the same as the narcissist’s. There was a
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“Someone disrespects me but I cannot disrespect them”…? Yes, that is correct. Describing someone who is not emotionally invested in a relationship with you, and when in conflict you would be just a pawn, where nothing gets resolved. Recognising this you would probably be seeing narcissistic tendencies in yourself or in others. For some, it
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In order to Start we need to look at some ground work by looking at how God reveals Himself and His will to us. Theological teaching shows three means of this happening, through divine revelation. General Revelation, Special Revelation and Ultimate Revelation. Jesus Christ is the Ultimate Revelation of God. Jesus alone perfectly reveals who
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You have no control over a primary emotion, developed in the past, when it is triggered. It doesn’t do any good to feel guilty about something over which you have no control. But you can seek to resolve the past conflict and you can immediately evaluate the present circumstance to bring it into perspective. For
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Reachyour full potential In life, many people do not reach their full potential. We can become so caught up in the everyday that it is easy to continue in old patterns rather than change. Yet, we all have a God-given desire to live to our full potential. For some people, that just about sums up
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Knowing that I cannot repent, renounce, forsake, forgive or submit for someone else, I hope to point out how to recognise when these things are overlooked and what to do about it. Fresh Start… what does that even mean? I think it means what many others have told me their experience has been. As varied
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